He had been working so hard to succeed and was now desperate, his business deep in the red.
I asked him: “If there was one person on the planet holding you back, who would it be?”
He immediately said, “My Mother.”
She was giving him money to keep his business afloat. She had also given him the down payment for his house and had just taken over making the payments.
Now he had the insight to succeed: untangle from Mom and become independent: become the man, the success, he was meant to be.
I stopped her and asked, “Give your SELF?”
Her eyes widened, as she realized what she had said and what she had been doing. That insight gave her the foundation to find the right man and build a relationship.