Category Archives: Relationships

Complain? Nobody Wants to Hear About Your Cockroaches (an easy way to lift your life)

 ( A 60-Second Look at a Life-Lifting Change )     As my brother walked into the hotel’s Bathroom, he saw a huge cockroach Chewing on his tooth brush      Much later (and with great distance from that Bizarre … Continue reading

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Stop ‘Helping’ Those Around You?

( A 60-Second Look at a Life-Lifting Change )     She wouldn’t stop trying to ‘help’ me.  She Saw the changes I needed in my life, the Ones that would do me the most good   And she worked … Continue reading

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Gossip ALWAYS Lowers Self-Esteem, but You Can Raise Yours—and Theirs

(  A 60-Second Look at a Life-Lifting Change )     Gossip?  You’ve probably known somebody Who loved talking about, well, everybody   You’ve probably also felt uncomfortable when you realized their gossip included you   I’m guilty.  I’ve done it … Continue reading

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Lost in Thought or Lost in a Device is Still Lost

 ( A 60-Second Look at a Life-Lifting Change )     Years ago, I wrote (of mindfulness):  “A man stops to smell the roses, and the fragrance reminds him of the last time he gave flowers—to his ex—which leads him … Continue reading

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We Can’t Stop Judging (it’s automatic), But We Can Make It More Positive – for us and them

  A 60-Second Look at a Life-Lifting Change   I admit it.  I judge. I look down on those around me and Notice their problems and issues.  I Mentally shake my head at the way they Act, the mistakes they make … Continue reading

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